I have to agree to what was said above...you will get it on your own time. Do not let anything get you down or distract you from your goal. Even if it takes months. You should ask yourself whether you are having fun or not...if you are then you have already achieved what this hobby sets out to do.

People differ so there is no average. I spend a lot of time on a simulator and had one 5 min flight (no landing or take offs) on a friends Super Air. Then I soloed the next flight on my Ultra Stick. It just differs and depends.