Hey Guys thanks for the suggestions I went all out and bought a circuitspdigital display soldering station http://circuitspecialists.com/prod.itml/icOid/7508 and a soldering jig http://www.stlcustomhobbies.com/Products.html so I'm ready to do some aggressive soldering I did get the flux when I picked up the solder at Radio shack. I'm gonna try it again.