ok i got a park zone slo v and i took it out for my first fly and all was going good until a big just of wind came out of no where and blew it into a pull and slamed it into the ground.. now my problem is that on the prop rod that holds the gear and everthing got lose or something and moves forward far enough that the gear wont touch the motor. now how can i fix that? it is almost like the washer got moved or something it is really weird i can't figure it out

You either pushed the gear on the shaft or broke something inside. Just replace the gearbox.