cheeseclip

theres this chick that i walk past everyday. she goes to a different school. i have the courage to ask her out but dont know what to say. please help

Diesel_Fuel_Only

Well you're gonna have to get to know her first. Say something like "Hey, I've noticed we walk past eachother every day and have never said hi. I'm ______, whats you're name?" Just start out with something real simple and say it with confidence. Then each day ask her how her day was, and before you know it you're getting somewhere.

Wide Open

dont expect it to be something that happens fast. ive been friends with a girl for two years now, and i know that both of us have at least considered asking eachother out, just neither one of us have done anything about it. just give it time is the best advice i can give.

cheeseclip

my name is george and im 13. thanks diesel fuel only i might try that but she walks with one of her friend as well so i dont know how well thatl go down. she wasnt at school yesterday but she might be tomorrow i will post if i start talking to her

Wide Open

be friends with both of them! i wonder if youll turn out any luckier than me. ive known my friend since i was 13 and now im 15 and STILL NOTHING!!! oh well, i get my drivers license this year, so at least i will have an easier time getting away from my parents to go see her.

cheeseclip

also one of my friends walks with me. they might also be shy

Wide Open

well, it might require a bit of a nudge on your part to get him to go with you. just remember that shyness is your worst enemy! you have to be confident about it.

cheeseclip

im not shy but i think they might be. but my biggest problem is what to say

R/C fan-addict

just act yourself and say hi my name is George and this is my friend _________. I noticed that you walk by us everyday and just wanted to say hi." Then she'll say hi and lalalalalala... then get to know her a bit more and if you really see that you like her then ask her out and see what happens.

cheeseclip

thanks

jakjr

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Just do like pedro, make her a cake and leave it on her porch, chicks dig guys with mad cooking skills

R/C fan-addict

oh pick up some shrimp or mussels and then make a butter garlic sauce, get some good italian noodles and put the shrimp or mussels on top and there you have a really nice looking and tasting dinner that will make your GF think you can cook when you really can't! lol

Wide Open

sweet.

anyways, once you do become friends that will definatly determine whether or not you want to go out with her. personality is a big deciding factor in who you choose! a perfect example is my (hopefully) future girlfriend doesnt mind my rc addiction and i still dedicate enough time to her, so she's all for me dragging her to my airfield every once in a while. (yes, i fly also, and im hoping i can get her to try sometime also, she seems interested.) but im going to stop rambling now.

snowbl!nd

It's simple... just talk to her!

Don't just go up to her and ask her out - she's not going to go out if you've only just met. Get to know her and THEN ask her out.

Jeez...

cheeseclip

how long do you reckon b4 i ask. she hasnt been at school for 4 days(start of the week) so i havent even seen her

jakjr

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First day you see her I guess, no use in putting it off, that won't get you any where.

cheeseclip

thanks jakjr

Wide Open

are you kidding?? that never works! it takes time to do these things! cheese, you may want to get to know her a little better before you jump into this.

snowbl!nd

Like finding out what her name is before you ask if she wants to go out. That might help...

jakjr

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I don't mean to ask her out the first time he sees her [&:] I meant to talk to her the first time he sees her.

Wide Open

oh, sorry i got confused on your wording.

snowbl!nd

Yeah me too [&:] Speaking to her would definately help (well i doubt he'd get anywhere without talking to her...)

cheeseclip

really. jk

my names george so you dont have to call me cheeseclip if you dont want to

Spdsk8er

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how would you ask her out? just like hey, you wanna go to the movies or something?

Diesel_Fuel_Only

Well, I've always taken it as there are 2 kinds of "asking someone out".

There's the "hey, do you wanna go to the movies with me?", or "hey, do you wanna be my girlfriend" kind of thing. But you definately want to start with the first one... lol.