I am new to retract and my problem is my nose retract moves opposite my wing retract I am using the three wire connector that came with the retract they are electric retract How do I get the nose to work in the same direction as the wing retract

Use a signal reverser in the nose gear circuit. http://www.hobbyking.com/hobbyking/s..._Reverser.html

You can also use a reversing Y connector which you can get at your local hobby shop. Good Luck, Dave