Never built a RC before, and need help.
adws,
RCU is a good place for terms and experienced advice.
I'm not sure what you consider a lot of money.
but to get started with new decent gear is going to cost between 300-600 for an average setup.
If this is in your range first search this for for trainers First plane etc... Read the posts.
Second look for a club nearby visit see about an instructor
Third most trainers perform so much alike that the decision on which one comes down to price and personal preference.
Fourth Buy it go have fun