It would really help you to invest in a tach. With some experience you can get close by ear, but a tach is the way to get the most out of your engine without hurting it. Use the tach to find your max RPM, then richen up till you lose 300 to 400rpm. You'll be amazed how much better throttle response you get when you are tuned properly. This is the tach I use.
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