K.I.S.S.

I usually find that people who play video games are smoother on the sticks than those who don't. Don't get too concerned over it. Get more time in the air and have fun doing it. It will come to you.

As for holding the xmitter, do what is comfortable to you. As for me, I tried the 2 finger stick method, but my hands would begin to cramp after about 2 mins, so I'm all thumbs now (need a bigger xmitter .

Oh, and lets not forget...fly more....have fun...