Right, to reset depress both programming buttons and then apply power to the unit via the mpx.

You need to then set up via throttle channel as per page 1, in your case you need (page2) pos'n flasher (3) nav lights (3) and headlights (2) This is the third option down under "Functions by first step can be selected"

If done correctly you will find that the switching output channels on the socket are as follows:-

L/lights 7 & 8
Nav 4,5 & 6
Strobes 1,2 & 3

A word of warning, use only a regulated voltage of 5.9 volts in the jet otherwise you will blow it up! That's why I pull my power (channels) off a powerbox, make sure therefore that you are using decent capacity flight packs, I use two 6V sub c nimh's.

Gary.