If you are looking for the best, you should be looking for one of two on the market. Phoenix, or RealFlight. If you want free upgrades, very nice graphics and physics Phoenix is what you want. If you like a sim that will also be capable of working like a video game, that also has very good graphics and physics then Realflight is the one you want.

I have no clue what either one has regarding the Blade line of helis. I do not remember what each one has regarding specific brands. But if you use the Sim as a tool, an not a "check ride" like most people seem to use it, it does not matter which helicopters are represented in the simulator. Basic motor functions and instantaneous reactions is what you are looking for, not specific movements related to specific models.

Both simulators include the necessary hardware (controller and cables) to succesfully use the program.

Those two are the absolute BEST. Now as has been said before, best is subjective, and you had additional requirements tied to the "best" simulator, so what is best for me, might not be best for you.

Rafael