Originally Posted by
speedracerntrixie
As usual Bob good points. Not trying to make you feel old here bud but when I was rather wet behind the ears I had guys such as you, Jim Kelly, Paul Benezra, Dan Bignardi and a few others that took the time to answer my questions and did so with patience. When I look back at that I see the value of that mentoring. For those reasons and more I like to help guys out as much as I can both at the field and on forums. I had hoped that I could pass some onto my own boys but they have other interests. IMO we don't see nearly as many young people at the field as we used to. I'm sure there are a multitude of reasons why but I for one sure as hell want to encourage these young people as much as I can, In my eyes its a way of thanking those who were there for me as a youngster. If some people don't understand my motives and want to throw a label on my back then so be it.
Yes you’ve pointed out your selfless deeds and honorable motives at least a few times this thread alone. Believe me those who you have taken the time to help most likely truly appreciate your efforts. You profess to not care of others opinions but it appears your searching for recognition or someone’s approval when you keep bringing it up. The simple fact is that at any of the clubs I have attended or been a member, the majority of the members help at what ever level they are capable of. Even beginners help each other. It’s the nature of joining and belonging to a group who share the same interests. The really outstanding mentors I have had the pleasure of knowing never seamed to have the need to be recognized for their deeds. In fact I cannot remember a single one who thought they did anything out of the ordinary.
All funning aside, yes I am guilty of pulling your chain at times. Help because you enjoy it not for any type of recognition. That way when someone isn’t even polite enough to say thank you it’s easy to shrug your shoulders and go back to enjoying your hobby. When someone does thank you it may be that you have just made a new good friend and that is worth many times any recognition or accolades.
Dennis