This hobby does attract people whose social skills are, shall we say, a bit lacking? The guy who trained me was as crotchety as the day was long. We flew when he got ready, often as much as 1/2 an hour after I got the plane ready. And he was a terrible teacher, didn't explain much and let me have minor crashes a couple of times when he could have saved it but just didn't really care. But he was available and I dealt with it, so now I'm a pretty good pilot and teach others when I can. But really, if you are looking for guys with great interpersonal skills this is not the best hobby for you.