Been married 61 years this coming Dec. I was a modeler before we even met (free fllight gas).
I always have a comeback if I hear any complaints. Actually she used to come to the field and often expresses sympathy when I come home with a trash bag full of parts. Of course what she really likes are clothes and diamonds and her closet(s) are full. This narrows my choices at gift giving time. Having supplied her with the comforts of life, including the sparkling things, I get a free hand with the credit card especially if the receipt is from our local jeweler. Never forget the phrase "It was on sale. A real bargain, and it will never be cheaper."