I'm not sure what the Dr Spock comment is about. Fragile psyche? What? You aren't making much sense. Go back and read what I said or have someone read it to you. The fact that he didn't respond suggests to me that he has made his mind up. Maybe he is an adult and doesn't need a pep rally to get motivated. I'm the same way. I can pretty much make my own mind up. If you need the latest Tony Robbins book to make descisions, it's Ok, but not everyone needs this. I think it was pretty dumb to ask "Is this how you handle all life's obstacles?"