Something to think about. Build or ARF both require a check book. Skill come with flying. Everyone is new at some time, all had to have help to get better. As as a "hobbist / flyer" moves up in the "hobby/sport" new skills are needed. Help and we all win, complain and everyone losses. All clubs have those that help the new members and enjoy watching and helping anyone improve. If a club has unsafe pilots work with them, if that person will not take the help ask them to leave.
Dennis