I disagree with your GET OVER IT statement and I'm sure that with some thought you will agree that this 3d style, in your face flying is here to stay. Our hobby is evolving both in the technology and style of flying and with this we get change, I would say calling 3d/hovering a fad is like the freeflight/ control-line guys in the 50,s and 60,s saying that RC is only a FAD, give it a few years and we'll all be back to flying these FFlighters, (I know extreme but just to get the point across).. anyway sorry to tell you but its called progression, and I'm sorry to say its probably get allot more extreme as people dream stuff up.
We were having this problem at our field, actually the old guys thought that we were flying dangerously and we should stop hovering!! This is just unreal as these guys try to hover and haven't got the skills to put it bluntly. I am one of these tail touching idiots who scares away all the other flyers...funny stuff, how can a guy brake the rules when there aren't any...

Theres an EASY solution!!

1st RESPECT other flyer's

2nd ask flyer's if they would mind if you have a small period of time to fly by yourself or for a group of you who fly the same style of flying to fly together.

3rd COMMUNICATION use your common sense, if you don't like what your seeing talk up and don't make a fuss out of a situation that could have been fixed in a short period of time.

4th. Welcome to the future. All of us flyers can co-exist. 3d aint a fad, the hundreds of thousands of flyers trying this style of flying can all vouch that its fun..

5th SAFETY if you feel this is unsafe at your club, have a hovering area at your field maybe on the opposite side of the strip, or even off the flightline.
This is only an opinion, but hey it all makes sense.

And finally, learn how to hover yourself instead of getting after someone that has got considerable skill, you may even come to like it..
think its called tall poppy syndrome!!