The wife is mad at me. She's all about 'what are you going to buy me'. This past year we just purchased our first home along with a 2004 Ford Expedition. A couple of days ago after getting home from shopping and asking her how much she just spent, (450.00+) then she added, "oh, I still need to buy five gifts including yours" I responded, "Don't buy me anything" she responded, "so you're not getting me anything" she began to cry and called me a scrooge. Now, I'm in the doghouse. What's my point? I'm buying my own ARF this year.