RE: Q: Where can I find an online dealer who ships to Europe ?
I haven't read all the posts, and may be repeating advice, but I've had a couple of good experiences with Hobby Barn in the US. Good prices and good servioce = a happy me. They'll ship kits/ARFs by post, surafce or air mail, rather than UPS/FEDEX, and that makes receiving the goods a lot cheaper.
Good luck.