It is like a condition that can occur when flying full size planes. You get the nose up to a certain point and the plane slowed down and there just isn't enough power in the machine to pull straight out of it, you HAVE to drop the nose and let the wing fly (not much usually)and accelerate but you have to break the stall and it you are low it goes against everything in you to do it. Only thru training and discipline and practice will it come to you. Practice slow flight at a safe altitude. The major airlines(and others) practice these maneuvers in the simulators because it is too dangerous in real life but the training has saved many lives.
In a condition like Bubba described if you would have used rudder instead of aileron it would not aggravate the wing stall but again that take experience you don't have yet. As I have said before, Don't rush. It will come. It is your youth that doesn't want to wait, I was the same way.