RE: Learn to Fly without an instructor
Good for you. Many more people could learn to fly on their own if they took an intelligent approach as you did.
Happily for me, my father was a military pilot who liked to take his son out to an open field on Sundays for some flying lessons. I learned on very simple aircraft using an RC system using what were called escapements. My father was an expert at it, but I never quite mastered it. It was a happy day when the first digital radios appeared on the scene.
Today there is a lot of RC stuff for simple small planes called park flyer which I believe one could master on their own perhaps with the help of a simulator. Unfortunately too many people get indocrinated into the usual route of buying a 40 sized trainer and joining a club and the AMA. A pretty boring approrach to flying for people without much imagination or initiative.
Ciao,
Mr Akimoto