RE: Recommend a Pattern ARF .46 to .61
Bob,
If you don't want something that flies fast, you probably don't want a classic pattern plane - they are commonly referred to as "ballistic pattern planes" for good reason. The modern F3A type planes would probably suit you a lot better. There's currently a thread in the generic pattern forum "Please suggest one of these for first pattern plane" that should give you some ideas.
Good luck!
Tim