N5,
Please see the FAQ for the complex 7 servo aerobat. it will give you almost all of it. set it up, do one piece at a time, make sure that piece works properly. from what you learned there, try to create the other mixes yourself. then pop back and let me know what still isn't working and i'll be happy to help.

Hint#1: your "flaps" are NOT what your radio is talking about when it says "flaps". youve turned on flaperon and therefore the aileron servos moving together as flaps is what the radio means when it says flaps. elevator to flap mix will give you your last desired function.