RE: Flaps-switch or dial?
Personally; I find the extra switch just one more thing to worry about when I'm concentrating on my AC.
If you must use flaps I'd suggest the 3 position switch- it's quick and easy - no guessing when you are looking at your AC and fiddling with a knob that you cannot see.
I have two planes with flaps - P51D and a S Chipmunk - after the first few fights - I have no use for the flaps. The planes take off and land perfectly without them.
Other than scale appearance - I have no use for Flaps.
IMHO