RE: simulators
rclement,
While simulators are a good thing most of the time, I've found that they can also be a bad thing. Especially if somebody spends a lot of time on one before meeting an instructor. It's possible for the student to pick up bad habits from the simulator. Then the instructor has to spend time "un-learning" the bad habits before they can teach them to fly. This doesn't happen to everybody, but it does happen.
Ken