Definitely stay away from the E-Starter. The Fokker is basically what you have now with ailerons, take a look at some of these:
http://www.e-fliterc.com/Products/De...ProdID=EFL2200
http://www.parkflyers.com/html/cessna_182.html (not the RTF version, buy the parts separately)
http://www.hobby-lobby.com/cessna182.htm
These are all foam planes, so if you crash, most of the time you can just glue the foam back in place. I actually have the ParkFlyers Cessna and highly recommend it, just don't get the RTF version, the electronics are terrible.