For what its worth, I taught myself to fly over the past few months with a Hobbico Superstar .40. Its a pretty big plane that flies well. I bought a simulator and flew it for 2 weeks every night. Weekend of the 3rd week, I took to the air and flew pretty well (for a newbie). Once I got over the first couple of flights I relaxed and have been just fine. I could be better at landing, but I have only bent up one set of gear so its not that bad. I also flew a Goldberg Tiger 2 that I liked. I am a firm believer that you can teach yourself to fly if done right. Others may disagree, but I thought it was fun and am proud to be a self taught.

Edit to add- I firmly believe the simulator was the only reason my plane did not end up in a pile of sticks after 5 seconds. They are worth their weight in gold.