Atlanta Hobby has a nice selection of all the products you mentioned, I generally prefer a local hobby shop though.

My personal preference is to go with Hacker motors, they are very efficient and very powerful. My Hacker A20-20L pulls my 14oz 3D park flyer out of a hover like a missile. The Hi-Max you listed is going to be heavier than the other 2 motors so I sugegst against it. Hi-Max makes nice motors though and the 2812 series is a closer match in weight to the motors you listed. My Hi-Max 2812-0650 is about 60% as powerful as the Hacker A20-20L. I'd suggest starting with a 10x4.7, the 11x4.7 may pull too many amps.

I use Castle Creations ESC's across the board and yes a 25amp is good for those motors. The Hi-Max you listed is going to be heavier than the other 2 motors so I sugegst against it.

Check out the Astro 109 charger along with the Astro Blinky balancer. It's a great pair and is super easy to use. The charger only requires setting the current of the charge the rest is automated. Triton's are nice chargers, my buddy has 2 of them and they work well, but are a bit more difficult to use and require some setup. They offer more functionality as well (li-po, ni-cd, ni-mh and lead acid charging ability).

TP 3S 1320mah li-po's are great. I have started using the 3S 910mah packs as well since they can handle 20+ amps and are about an ounce lighter. 1 thing to keep in mind with 3D the lighter the better big time. BTW, I reduced flight time by only 30-45 seconds going from 1320's to 910's but flight perfomance improved greatly.

Hobby Lobby seems to suggest acceptable equipment for their planes so keep that in mind. At 15.5oz either the AXI or the Hacker would be fine. If you like the Hi-Max motors looks at the 2812-0850 for that plane, however I still suggest the Hacker.