hm that is where i cant help at all. i have never had a stryker C so i know zip about how the radio works.. you will need to check your manual or horizon hobby parkzone for that
as for the charger problem try this link
http://www2.towerhobbies.com/cgi-bin...?&I=LXUF47&P=V
i suspect that the item which you got from radio shack is under rated for what your lipo chargers need
this item fromtower hobbies should more than do the trick.
hope this helps, sorry i coulddnt be much help with the radio though. never had a stryker C you know.
Im just about finishing my F-16 build hehe i can wait
happy flying dude