your problem might be that you are using a cx2 model in the sim =P anyways, beyong that you are going to want to do the exact reverse cyclic of the direction you are going, so if you are flying tail in and the tail is comming straight at you, give it lots of forward cyclic (of coarse not enough to give you blade clack), and ease back on the throttle or you will zom up in the air. As the heli slows down and goes back into a hover you'll have to increase the theottle again so you don't loose alt and fall into the ground.

hopefully that is what you were asking for =)