DBD,
Glad you got things worked out and know that the unexpected can happen anytime.
Words like this from the EXPERTS (If the scenerio that you just described has you P'ed maybe you should consider a different hobby) would Po me more then anything else.
I often ask myself why some others feel they have the right to tell another person to consider another hobby
LIke you stated no one is going to be happy no matter who's fault it was.
Keep em' flying