so i was thinking after i woke up...

connect the bl main directly to ch3,
connect throttle lead from 3 in 1 to my telebee hh gyro,
connect gyro to ch4,
leave rudder lead from 3 in 1 unplug,
power up in throttle hold and let tail (originally brushed main) esc initialize.

i hope i don't blow anything up lol!