Here is a site with spare parts for your heli: http://www.jaghobbies.com/rc_planes/honey_bee_cp2.htm

I believe a simulator will get you oriented with the controls, but your setup will ultimately fly different than in the simulator. Also, a perfect setup will require little stick input to remain stable.

A good way to start is not to get the heli off the ground more than an inch or two. Start on a smooth large cement patch, not on grass. Grass will catch and snag your tail blades etc. Some people believe grass will be easier on blades, but they are probably breaking no matter what when you crash.

I started by sliding the helicopter around quite a bit (almost hovering) with training gear until I knew how sensitive the controls were. I kept getting just high enough so the gear is almost touching and trying to hold the lowest hover possible. Everytime the heli starts to wander away cut the throttle and start over.

I think a lot of people want to see it fly and take it to the air too quickly and crash. Patience is the key.