Sorry- treat me like a five year old

. So the servos move, but what doesn't? what is it you're calling the CCPM?
The 6EX needs to be set to heli aircraft type, swash type 3-S, then you set the AIL, ELE, and PIT AFRs to get the right direction and amount of swash travel. You may need to set the servo reversing again before you can set the AFR.