I need help
Pierre
While its true that there are jerks in every activity I think you will find an overwhelming majority of modelers will bend over backward to help new folks, particularly younger ones who demonstrate a good attitude. I have given away airplanes and good gear to some folks.
I suspect the gentleman you are talking to is perhaps someone like this especially if he helps you in construction. Just circulate in the club a little and you will soon learn if he is his sincere.
By the way the Kaydet LT 40 either the ARF or kit is an ideal starting airplane.
John