I am a self taught flier too. I think tower has a all in one Avistar kit for about $300. I didn't join any clubs or get any training. I did spend a lot of money. If you crash your Avistar bad enough you are going to have shell out another $90 to replace the plane. One thing to keep in mind. You are going to need a place to fly. Chances are if you find a good place, more than likely other flyers will be flying there. Just walk up and talk to them. After a year of flying I know a lot of flyers. We don't share a club, just a sweet spot to fly. I have yet to walk up to anyone flying there, that wasn't willing to talk. I would bet that most would be willing to help.

PS I forgot to add, good luck and don't give up. I have a ball flying.