Hey Jim 31 years here. My advise to you is to do what she asks you to do. I have 2 daughters ( #2's getting married on Saturday wooohooo!) my wife and 3 female dogs so I think I speak with experience on women (hahahahahahahaha). I've learned to stay away from conflict. When it comes to the planes there are very few women who get what we do. The ones who do probably have an agenda and I wouldn't trust them. Heck I don't even try to get them to like it anymore I mean what's the use? If the wife shows any interest I encourage it but it doesn't mean anything and it doesn't last.
Here's some simple rules for mixing planes with a happy relationship.
emmm no no that one didn't work. How bout this one- opps no that backfired ahhh let me see nope that one was just stupid. ahh forget it!
That's right there aren't any so we all have to wing it and chill out. Maybe's it's the hormones or lack there of.
Happy New Year everyone.
Mike