Kennelmaster,

Although I am happy that you have entered this fine hobby with an attitude focused toward success, some of your statements have come off slightly negative, and when i read what you mentioned about getting help from others, i can understand how some instructors are slightly offended. I'm positive that eveyone has entered rc in a slightly different way and i see no problem with you teaching yourself with the help of your son. Although this may not create the greatest chance for success, you are correct in saying that you will learn from your mistakes. With every flight that i have had, which isn't many, I have always learned something new, or got to test something new i learned. I'm positive that almost everyone does similar things.

Being only 15, my comments might have no value at all to you, which is fine cuz i'm a "rotten ol teenager" or whatever adults say hahaham, BUT, there is a giant wealth of information available on this site. Be sure to check in the different forums such as kits, gliders, helicopers, cars, twins, giant scale, or any of the other great forums to see what interests you. then get invloved in discussions and ask any questions you have, i guarantee that someone will be able to help you with your problems. They can also help safely guide you down that path you wish to take. I have spent more time on this website than i have on a simulator or out at the flying field, and i have learned a gargantuan amount of new stuff. It is the most helpful RC website that exists and everyone is so friendly. I strongly suggest that you come here for help with anything rc related such as deciding on your next plane!

Welcome to RCU and this magnificent hobby.
Good luck with your flight and remember to breathe (i almost forgot)!

Jake