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All anybody needs to know on this topic is that one's chances for successful learning increase greatly with help from an experienced flyer. If a guy wants to go it alone, then he can if he wants. It will cost him many times over what a club membership and training would have cost, but you just can't tell some people anything. Anybody can learn using any approach they want, given enough time, effort, and funding. The cheapest route for all three is a buddy box but to each his own.