I understand completely Sushiseeker. In the end I think you should do what you feel is right for your situation. One added bonus for my son is he is now one of the guys in our club. He doesn't even help me unpack anymore, he's off making the rounds with all the other flyers and even the older gentleman in our club get a kick out of him. All at the age of 11. Enjoy the sport with your son , I cherish the time I spend with my son and daughter (9) at the field. I know it won't be long before friends and boys (help me) will push Dad into the next room. LOL