Yup- this stuff is a little harder to do than most people think, but that's when it gets fun.

What type of transmitter are you using? You might want to invest in a buddy box and a trainer cord. I get mine from a LHS, and for a buddy box, you can get them super cheap (10 to 20 bucks). depending on what cord you need, about 12 to 15 dollars is the norm. As you progress, it's nicer to use this system, as your instructor can let you try to recover from mistakes, and instantly take control if that's what is needed. A minimal investment, and when you get to the point where you can instruct, you'll have the tools to do it.