I was wondering if someone could help me with the best way to link 2 gold-n-rods together. I have one push rod for each elevator and was wondering how people have linked the 2 inner runners together to get equal elevator throws on each side.

Wire wrap and solder a short "Y" from 2 pieces of 2-56 push rod. The Y gets attached to the servo arm.

You can thread the gold part (nyrod ) right on to the threads of the "Y".

While you can get SOME adjustment at the Y, the primary adjustment will be from the clevis attached to the control horn.